How do happy couples manage to stay happy?
Having sex increases the level of intimacy especially if one’s desires are met. It’s easy-peasy to fulfill those needs for couples living together but for those who live miles apart, maybe it needs to be tweaked a little.
And by tweaking it a little, maybe we could use a little help by using toys– and no we do not mean Lego blocks or fancy teacup set, we mean adult toys. Sure, talking dirty via phone may get a bit boring after some time that is why we created a list of tips and toys for you and your partner.
Oh, and don’t get me wrong, these adult love tools can also be used by singles who want heat up the long, cold nights or for adventurous duos who’d like to try something new in bed.
The items mentioned here range from $11 to as much as $120. They’re mostly affordable. It doesn’t take much to satiate your libido.
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Step 1: Have a threesome with Alexa
Alexa can now control your sex life, thanks to the Lovense app upgrade.
Before you cross out this thought in a snap and lecture us about cheating and being unfaithful, we suggest you keep reading because Alexa does wonders.
Have a totally hands-off, no touch love-making session with your man, with Alexa giving your adult activity a little twist. Amazon’s Alexa virtual assistant is now synced with your Lovesense adult toys, meaning aside from controlling your toys over an app, Alexa voice commands can now activate them too.
Voice commands such as “Alexa, make my partner smile with toy”, “Make my partner moan with toy”, or even “Make my partner scream with toy” will surely quench your thirst even if you and your sweetheart are miles apart.
And worry not, Lovesense updates their apps from time to time so those who already own some won’t have to buy a new set of pleasure tools.
Step 2: Experience your fantasies in virtual reality
This comes with a masturbation cup. Men will dig this.
Believe it or not, men love gifts and surprises, too!
One way to surprise your man’s manhood is by purchasing him BKK’s Virtual Reality Headset Masturbation Stroker Cup. His old, boring gaming VR gadget is nothing compared to this VR headset as this one comes with a masturbation cup designed just like the real lady coochie, complete with the imitated labia and G-spot.
The cup’s movement is synchronized with the surround sound effect VR Headset, readying him for the ultimate blow. All he has to do is to download the app in his iOS or Android device, register, and download the video directly to his phone and — voila!
Turning his fantasy into reality is as easy as 1, 2, 3. No need to worry about your man’s manly needs whether you’re out of the country or simply just not in the mood for doing “it”.
Step 3: Get kinky all by yourself
This one is an all-in-one love gadget for independent women
Who says women only get pleasure from men? Of course, we’re not that needy.
Whether you’re alone, at work, or even traveling, when libido reaches its peak, you could always count on Orlena Clitoral Sucking Vibrator as it always comes in handy!
This toy can be used to slowly heat you up or to help you quickly reach your peak with its 2 in 1 vibrator feature, 5 suction intensities, and 8 powerful vibration modes. It even functions as a nipple sucker, clit stimulator, dildo and G-spot vibrator; an all-in-one love gadget for women who love to explore themselves.
When you’re feeling sneaky, your dark secret’s safe with your Orlena Vibrator as it is whisper-quiet compared to other vibrators. But then again, it’s all up to you to contain your moans and screams while using this love gizmo!
Step 4: Play with your dolls
This is your no-ordinary doll
This tip is not as innocent as you think.
By dolls, we mean love dolls that would keep your partner company while you’re away. KingMansion’s Sex Love Doll will surely be a great companion for couples in an LDR.
She is a petite, 5-foot tall dolly whose features are human-like. With breasts in size E cup and an hourglass figure, this toy may be artificial but she’ll definitely make your steamy activity feel more than real. She welcomes oral (5.12 in), anal (7.08in), and vaginal (8.27in) penetration and arrives at your doorstep in a sexy, lingerie piece — all set and ready.
Made of Silicone TPE, you need not worry about her being flexible enough as she can surely keep up with the different sex positions she is desired to do. KingMansion’s Sex Love Doll is certainly be a good pseudo-lover to keep your partner “busy” while he’s waiting for the real warmth of your touch.
Step 5: Get dirty with your partner from miles away
Wanna come together?
Reaching the peak together undoubtedly increases the level of intimacy for couples. But why is it such a tricky timing to achieve?
We-Vibe Sync Adjustable Couple’s Vibrator makes synchronized orgasms possible as its double adjustable points are designed to satisfy both you and your partner at the same time.
This techie toy works best in PIV sex where the gadget’s textured arm stimulates the clitoris and the smoother arm could be slipped inside you to give you a fuller feeling while vibrating into your man’s member. But wait, there’s more to that! We-Vibe Sync won’t be named as the world’s no. 1 pleasure product for nothing.
Maximize this widget to the fullest by connecting it to the We-Connect app on your smartphone, and controlling your partner’s sexual activity even if you are a continent away. This feature also has two modes: Touch, for real-time gadget controlling and Beat, to mesh the vibrations to the thump of your chosen music. It also comes with a handy remote control to change the intensity of vibrations depending on the heat of the moment. With We-Vibe Sync, maintaining the passion in a relationship with a little help from technology is no sweat.
Step 6: Public teasing always work
Sneaky way to foreplay
Imagine yourself sitting across your lover in a candle-lit, fancy restaurant. The ambiance is so romantic and you’re starting to feel a little horny.
Could it be the aphrosidiac red wine you’re sipping? Or could it be his seductive gaze? Or is the Sexy Slave Wireless Vibrating Egg the naughty culprit? Yes, you read it right.
Foreplays can now be taken outside and is not only limited to the four sides of your bedroom! Be more adventurous and tease each other (discreetly) among the mob. Simply slide this sneaky egg in between your legs and let your partner tease and turn you on up to 40 feet away.
The wand is also built specifically for your secret fun as it’s size is only 8.5cm/3.4″x3.3cm/1.3″ for the egg and 5.5cm/2.1″x3.5cm/1.37″ for the remote. But, clearly, size doesn’t matter as it is designed for vibration, pulsation, and escalation. Now, start mastering the art of discretion and let this tiny thing catapult you into climax!
Sex toys give pleasure when couples are together or apart, yes, but more importantly, they also allow partners to explore and get to know each other more: what turns them on, what position makes them orgasm, you know the drill.
They exist to spice up you’re already sizzling (or stale) sex life. The point is, with sex toys, you’ve got nothing to lose (except your virginity, maybe). Go ahead and enjoy!
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