Sometimes it can be awkward to talk about, but when it comes down to it, sex is a part of pretty much all of our lives. Whether we have a partner or not, a lot of us spend a fair amount of time thinking about it. Then of course we all have our favorite fantasies, our favorite positions, our favorite scenarios, etc. However, when we go too long without it, we tend to get frustrated.
Maybe your partner is out of town, or maybe you simply don’t currently have that “special someone” in your life, but for one reason or another you find yourself sexually frustrated and unfortunately for you, sexual frustration and its side effects can be completely irritating to deal with. Causing you to get angry over virtually nothing, putting you in a bad mood, leading you to have have trouble concentrating, interrupting your sleep and even potentially leading to a shorter life span!
Thankfully, there are ways to remedy this, especially living in the 21st century. The solution? Modern sex toys!
What they are
In essence, these toys combine traditional sex toys (such as vibrators for example), with technology and in some cases virtual reality, making them connected, as well as more real than ever!
Why you need it
Nobody want’s to suffer from sexual frustration. Unfortunately though there will always be times when sex just isn’t easily accessible for you. These toys will help you release the frustration and tension that builds during these times. Additionally, these toys might even help you become closer with your partner and they will surely help you to feel happier on a daily basis.
Ranging from $99 to over $700, these toys can get a bit pricey. However, if you think of it as investment in your overall mental well-being, the price gets a bit less scary. Also, these would make great Valentine’s Day gifts if you’re looking for something more unique and personal this year.
If you find yourself suffering from sexual frustration, keep reading to find some awesome tips on how to release the tension and become a better you!
1. Stay connected to your partner even while physically apart.
You and your partner might have an awesome sex life when you are both in the same town. But when one of you goes out of town on business (or perhaps goes home because you’re trying out the long distance relationship thing), things could change. You no longer have them there to satisfy your needs and you find yourself feeling frustrated.
Until however, you and your partner got yourself some smart sex toys! Designed to stimulate in all the right places (yes for both males and females, nobody is left out here!), these sex toys will not only allow you to enjoy them on your own, they will actually let your partner control it for you directly from their smartphones! This means, no matter how far apart the two of you might be, you can still connect directly in the most intimate of ways, thus decreasing frustration and increasing the love!
2. Finally experience your ultimate fantasy.
We all have our favorite fantasies we return to time and time again. Maybe they’re elaborate, such as the mailman coming in for a glass of lemonade on a hot day. Or they might be as simple as getting it on with a porn star. Regardless of what yours is, you can now experience it in a whole new way, through a combination of high tech sex toys and virtual reality!
That’s right, some of your favorite VR companies have actually teamed up with Porn Hub as well as various sex toy companies to bring you the most real, personal “alone time’ you’ll ever have. Just pick your video from virtualrealporn.com, lay back, put on your VR headset, position your toy and press play. Then you will experience your wildest fantasies as they come to life before you. With videos designed to captivate and toys that will actually respond and contract based off of what the actors in the video are doing, you can’t get more real without simply expressing your fantasies in real life.
3. Practice makes perfect.
If we are being honest, we all want to think we are great in bed! But when it comes down to it, if you haven’t had much experience, you probably aren’t going to be as up to par as you’d hoped to be when the time finally comes to perform. Fortunately, there are ways around this without having to embarrass yourself with another human being. Ways to practice your O face, get your moves down, find out what you like best, etc. You need to get yourself a smart sex toy, preferably one that is as lifelike as possible.
For example, with the Twerking Butt, you’ll get a product that is made with cyber skin (i.e. a patented material that is designed to look and feel just like real skin, all the way down to a 98 degree temperature), that you can actually use to practice with. Designed to look and feel like a real butt, this product will contract, move with you and help you amp up your game. Or, if you’re looking for a more female oriented version, getting a product like the Nora Vibrator will allow you to determine your favorite positions and learn what really works best for you.
4. Do it for yourself.
Of course we want to stay connected, experience our fantasies and increase our game. But what about those days you’re hanging out at home and you just want to do it for yourself? Those days when you’d honestly rather not have a partner? After all, nobody knows you like you do, there’s no foreplay to contend with, you don’t have to cuddle up with anyone after or even be overly sexy. You can just do what you want, make yourself feel whatever way you please and be done.
There are smart sex toys for those days too! Designed to hit all the right spots, and allowing you to get creative and design and save your own vibration patterns via your smartphone, many of these personal smart sex toys will leave you wondering why you ever thought a physical partner was so important in the first place. Plus, if you ever do feel like using them with a partner you totally can! Just share your favorite vibration patterns via your smartphone and experience it together. That’s a real win win.
It was only ever a matter of time before the technology of today and the world of sex merged, and in my opinion its a very positive thing. Making it easier to stay connected while your partner is away, allowing you to experience things you may never have been able to before, helping you to learn and grown and even enabling independence, smart sex toys offer the whole package.
That said, there are other great ways to release this frustration with the help of technology as well. For example, you could easily use your smart lighting and bluetooth speakers to set the mood if your partner is at home and needs a little extra convincing. Or you could prepare a really great meal with any number of smart kitchen products, followed by a perfectly mixed cocktail to help you and your partner relax beforehand. However you choose to get in the mood and release your frustration though, you can rest assured you will feel so much better one you do.
Also be sure to check out our article: Connected Living App, Yonomi, Finds ‘Sexy Time’ Routines to Be Among Most Popular to learn about how easy it can be to control the ‘Sexy Time’ ambiance in your home.